Sunday, January 27, 2013

New York, New York

John and I decided we needed a short getaway and what better to do than to go to NYC for a long weekend?

Of course, it wouldn't have been a "real" vacation without a little drama first. On the Friday before we left (last Friday), I had dropped my car off at a garage near my office for an oil change. About 5:40, while getting ready to leave the office, I thought to myself, "Where did I park the car?"

You know that exact second when you realize you may have made a HUGE mistake? Um, yeah.

I broke into a run and hoped and prayed the entire time that either a) the garage was still open or b) they had left the car outside in the lot. When the garage came into my view and I didn't see any lights on, I prayed for scenario b. Luckily, they had left it in the lot. I just figured I'd call John and have him swing by on his way home with my extra car key. No biggie. Come to find out, when you work in a podunk town, they don't even bother locking the damn thing! Car was open with the key on the front seat. Dodged a bullet there!

We started out on the road Saturday a.m. around 8:30 and made it to the Bronx before we took a slight "detour."

Let's take a step back here, shall we? (This is when the camera would back up and the narrator would show up.) If someone asked me what I've inherited from my Mom, I'd probably say lack of direction. (Sorry Mom, but we all know the score!) I loved to read maps and atlases when I was little, but put me in a moving vehicle and ask me if we're going the right way and I break out in hives. So, when John said to me, "You're going to need to turn on the iPad and start reading me the directions" I could feel my face getting hot. I can read, but when the little blue dot starts going off the beaten path, I sort of freak.

That happened in the Bronx. Not really my fault...the map's fault, but still. There were a few dicey moments (when you're driving in NYC, there aren't many opportunities to pull over and assess the situation), but we finally righted the ship and made our way to Midtown West in Manhattan and to our hotel.

I chose our hotel by looking at TripAdvisor and basically starting with the #1 rated hotel and working my way down the list until I got to one that we could afford and that had availability (Very scientific, eh?) We ended up at The Iroquois.




It's on West 44th Street and a few blocks from Rockefeller Center and Times Square -- GREAT location!

We arrived a few hours before check-in and they were great about storing our luggage and valeting the car early. They told us they'd call us when our room was ready, so we decided to take advantage of the "mild" weather (40 degrees!) and walk over to Times Square. No sooner did we arrive in Times Square (like I said, only a few blocks) then they called to say the room was ready. We decided to walk back and get settled in.

It's been a LONG time since I've stayed in NYC (at least 10 years), so I wasn't sure what to expect. I was pleasantly surprised! The hotel itself is very cute and our room was, also.

Here's a peek at our bed (with all of our junk on it):



And the bathroom:



And the hotel robes with a peek at the walk-in closet:




After getting settled, we decided that there was no time like the present and that we may as well mark one of the items off our list that were there to do -- ice skating at Rockefeller Center. We walked over and scoped out the situation. Here's what it looks like from above (MUCH smaller than it looks like on TV!)






We then rented our skates and took to the ice.



(If I'd known that I would have to carry my pocketbook the entire time, I would've left it in the room!) We didn't do too badly. No one took a spill (we held hands the ENTIRE time...although I think it was more of a "death grip). It was pretty comical because there were three skaters out there that I'd consider professionals/show-offs. There were two women and one guy. Doing all kinds of tricks/spins, etc..and watching their reflections. I'm guessing they were laughing their heads off to themselves at all of us amateurs. We skated for about a 1/2 hour and decided we'd had enough.

The Lego store was right at Rockefeller Center so we went in there to browse. I wish I'd taken some photos -- the displays they had were AMAZING! We meandered over to the NBC Store and past Radio City Music Hall.



We then headed on over to Times Square and made our way in and out of shops. Believe it or not, the Toys R Us was pretty unbelievable. You walk in and there's a Ferris wheel INSIDE of the store! Each car is cartoon or kids' toy-themed. John was able to get a short video.



The store itself was three (?) levels and they had some amazing Lego displays in there. I was able to get a picture of the Statue of Liberty one (you can see the Empire State Building in the corner):




After all of that walking, we were hungry! We got out our trusty Fodor's guide and decided to give Toloache a try. It's a Mexican restaurant near our hotel. They mentioned something about grasshoppers in tacos, but we decided to play it a little safer. I had spicy lobster tacos and John had marinated beef tacos. Even though we were wedged into a makeshift corner table ("You don't have reservations??"), the food was amazing and the Sangria and Mango Margarita were as well!

Sunday was a packed day! We started out at the International Center of Photography. (It was basically right around the corner from our hotel, so we decided to give it a whirl.) The exhibits there were beautiful -- reflecting the early 1900's in Europe. David Seymour or "Chim" as he is known had some striking photos. I ended up buying a print of his. It's of a woman carrying a bushel on her head and the shadowing is amazing. (I'm sure "shadowing" isn't the right word and I can't find a picture online to share!)

After that, we started our long trek through NoHo, SoHo (with a small pit stop at the Kate Spade store, just to say I was there) with the end goal of reaching Chinatown. Here are the sites we saw along the way.











I'm not sure what was up with that last photo. Those carolers were just perched on some random building. It was almost like someone took down all of the Christmas decorations but forgot them.

Our Fodor's had recommended the 456 Shanghai restaurant on Mott St. in Chinatown. (They had us at "dumplings.")



It was a pretty small place and the line was out the door when we arrived but we made it to a table (which we ended up sharing with another couple) pretty quickly. We had steamed vegetable dumplings and steamed pork dumplings with pork fried rice. It was awesome! Plenty of food for two! After deciding that we were pretty full, we thought it best to forego a trip to our originally planned destination -- The Museum of Comic & Cartoon Art. (There's always next time!)

We made the long trek back and stocked up at the Duane Reade (i.e., CVS) around the corner from our hotel on goodies for the Pats game. We also went to Crumbs and treated ourselves to cupcakes. We then hunkered down in the hotel room and watched the debacle that was the Pats game.

OK..moving right along. We had originally thought we'd go to the Carnegie Deli after the game, but being as bummed out as we were (or as bummed out as John was would be more accurate) we decided to just meander over to Times Square. We tried to eat at Guy Fieri's restaurant, but the kitchen was closed. (Yes, you read that right...CLOSED.) It was only about 10PM ish on a Sunday night...in the city that never sleeps. Go figure. We ended up at one of the few places still serving food...Red Lobster.

Monday was our last day and we had saved it for the 9/11 Memorial. The site is somewhat in transition/in the midst of being memorialized. The reflecting pools where the North and South towers were are in place with the victims' names around the edges. There are a number of buildings being built and also an underground museum.

I felt like I had to go. I can't really explain why, but it was just something that I needed to do. As I walked around each reflecting pool, I tried to take in as many names as I could and tried to imagine what it was like for them and their families. Many people were posing for photos in front of the pools which I found pretty disrespectful and tasteless. It actually shocked me. Here are the images that I captured:




















This last one is a picture of the "Survivor Tree" that made it through 9/11 and several storms that ravaged the area.

Although we ended the trip on a somber note, it was an amazing weekend getaway!

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Assorted Anecdotes

I'm not really sure if you'd call these anecdotes, but I was going for alliteration in the title and I couldn't think of a better word. (If you think of one, by all means share.)

1. John and I went to New York City this past weekend. Wheee!!! It was a great little getaway. We need to go there more often. I will definitely devote a blog post specifically to the trip and share. I'm so thankful that it was in the 40's for most of the weekend (it's all relative I guess...) and it was really pleasant to be able to walk around and not have to be bundled up.

2. We bought a zoo. OK, we didn't buy a zoo, but that movie title sounds a lot catchier than "we bought a treadmill." We bought a treadmill! (Yeah, just doesn't have the same ring to it.) I've only used it once, but watched a TV show on my iPhone while walking/jogging and it made the time go by really fast. I need to make a schedule of what nights I plan to use it and then stick to it.

3. My name is KT and I'm a Downton-a-holic. Yes, I've joined the masses and started watching. If you're not familiar with Downton Abbey, you can read about this PBS series here. I usually avoid TV shows and books that are all the rage, but decided to give this a whirl. I watched Season 1 in one week and Season 2 in less time than that. I've watched the episodes of Season 3 that have aired and I am now officially caught up. Now I'm spending my time trying to figure out which Crawley sister I'm most like (l to r: Edith, Sybil, Mary):


4. This coming weekend won't be quite as exciting as last, but I am getting my hair cut on Saturday and then taking my calligraphy class on Sunday! The latter has been a long time coming, so I'm looking forward to getting back into it (I took a class years and years ago.)

5. I bought a cake at the grocery store tonight. As I type this, I'm eating a rather large slice. So, if you were going to ask how the whole Weight Watchers thing is going, there's your answer.

6. The Superbowl is on my birthday. I hate football. Thankfully, the home team (Patriots) are not in it and I won't have to arrange my birthday activity around a place with a TV.

7. Speaking of sports, HOCKEY IS BACK! I still think they're all greedy, but I can't not watch the Bruins. I missed it.

Monday, January 14, 2013

It's the Little Things

Before I started library school, I used to buy books A LOT.

I've always loved books and I'd say from the time I stopped using my school library (junior high?) until about five years ago (when I started library school), I bought books quite frequently. I would buy from Barnes & Noble, Borders (when it still existed), Amazon.com, and occasionally from used book stores.

When I started library school and became aware of the fact that libraries are slowly evolving, changing, and in some people's minds' "dying" I felt I needed to do my part and patronize my local public library and stop buying books.

Which I did.

I'd say that 99% of the books I read are from my local public library and the remaining 1% are gifts or in this case, "treats."

One of the items on my "40 Before 41" list is:  Buy a houseplant and nurture it so that it will live for at least one month. (I’m setting my sights low.)

I borrowed "Houseplants for Dummies" from the library (and renewed the max times that I could), but still wasn't able to use it to its fullest and figure out what plant I would buy, etc... (I'm kind of obsessive about reading every word in order to absorb knowledge in the hopes of successfully growing a plant.) So, I decided to splurge and buy a copy from eBay.




A $4.00 used copy of "Houseplants for Dummies" showing up in the mail made my day.

It arrived the other day along with another splurge, "Crock-Pot's Best-Loved Slow Cooker Recipes."




I'm about halfway through this one and so far I've only found one recipe that has piqued my interest. I'm hoping the second half will prove more fruitful.

So, as the title says, "It's the Little Things" --  two used books for less than $10 that will bring me hours (hopefully) of green thumbery and crock pot delicious cookery!

Sunday, January 6, 2013

50 States? 50 Blogs! Connecticut



(Don't Be) Too Timid and Squeamish

Another great name for a blog! (If you read the "About" page of the blog, you'll learn that it's a Henry David Thoreau quote.) Can't remember where I found this one (maybe BlogHer?) I was initially drawn to it because it's basically a whole blog dedicated to the idea behind my 40 Before 41 list. Try new things! Don't be so timid or squeamish! Even though I've been reading this blog for a while, I feel like I'm going to miss something when I describe it -- there's A LOT going on! Marcy shares her exploits -- her trials & tribulations of getting to be able to do 50 push-ups, making a pledge to eat "real" food for a week, traveling alone to Costa Rica, and that's just a few! (And if you're thinking, "Whoa -- this chick will put me to shame with all of her 'doing!' she does also have 'normal' posts, such as her 10 favorite Christmas ornaments.)

Things that caught my eye about this blog:
  • Marcy's a "real" person. Yes, this blog is all about her not being so timid and squeamish and performing acts that will enable this. However, as I mention above, she has "normal" posts AND she "vlogs" or video-blogs. (Like how I throw around the social media lingo? Eh...there's probably some newer term that I'm not aware of.) Here she airs her pet peeves. I like that I can see her and hear her. She's super human for doing all these fabulous things, BUT she's just like you and me!

  • Postcards! Yes, you must check out this awesome idea. She wants to know about the amazing non-timid and non-squeamish things YOU are doing! "Celebrate your courage" is one of her catchphrases (I like it!) Mail her a postcard -- share your story. She might feature it!

  • OK, so let's recap. She's Wonder Woman, yet "normal." She's not all about herself-- she wants to hear others' acts. AND get this (my favorite): she's not embarrassed by stuff. Um, if I covered my garage door in graffiti, I'd be pretty mortified (well, OK, let's face it, I probably wouldn't do it in the first place -- too timid! :) Yes, you guessed it -- she tagged her garage door with graffiti.

Things on this blog that I'd like for my blog:
  • The "Favorites" section (also in the border on the main page). I'd like the ability to highlight certain posts. Also, I think that this helps newbies to a blog to get a feel for it. (I know it helped me with this one!)


  • I like the cleanliness of the blog. I feel like mine is somewhat messy and all over the place. Perhaps because "Don't Be" is done on WordPress and I'm on Blogger. I'll have to check that out.

Want doable ideas to challenge yourself? Want to be encouraged for these triumphs? Check out this blog from the Nutmeg State!

Saturday, January 5, 2013

40 Before 41: Less than ONE MONTH LEFT!!!!



I'm starting to think that I'll have to carry some of these over to my "45 Before 46" list!!

1. Read 50 books in one calendar year.DONE! See here.

2. Finish my master’s degree. DONE!

3. Lose 25 lbs. DONE! (Although I may have gained a few back...)

4. Take an advanced calligraphy class. DONE (ish)! I'm taking a beginner's class at the end of this month and that studio is just started to offer intermediate classes, so my hope is that once I get my feet wet at the studio with the beginner's class, I'll take the intermediate one!

5. Post at least eight times per month on my blog. DONE!

6. Complete the Couch to 5K program. DONE! See here.

7. Hang out with my friends more often (or talk more often to those I can’t hang out with more due to geography.) I'm only half crossing this one out. I did a lot more with my friends in 2012 and I'm really happy about that. I still need to work on calling those I can't see that often.

8. Have one room in our basement finished. We have moved things from the basement to the attic (while sorting out at the same time.) We've gotten some recommendations for electricians. We're moving...s..l..o..w..l..y (still...)

9. Revisit horseback riding (which I haven’t done some since summer camp in elementary school). DONE! I took four lessons.

10. Go on vacation again to Rehoboth Beach, DE. DONE- twice!

11. Buy a houseplant and nurture it so that it will live for at least one month. (I’m setting my sights low.) Newest plan -- I ordered "Houseplants for Dummies" from eBay. Once I have that in my hot little hands, I'll take the plunge.

12. Watch Netflix movies within two weeks. DONE! See here.

13. Have a gathering of friends at our house. Um, no. This summer. I promise.

14. Drink only one soda per day. DONE! I have maybe 4-5 per week, and it's diet/caffeine-free.

15. Go on a vacation with my mom. We've got it narrowed down to Charleston, SC or Savannah, GA. Hopefully when I visit her in February, we can get some more details hammered out.

16. Play tennis with my husband at least twice. I asked...he didn't take me up. This summer.

17. Go parasailing. Hopefully this fall (yes, which will be after I turn 41) in Aruba.

18. Join the technology revolution and get an iPhone. Check!

19. Go through the plastic tubs of photos from my grandparents’ house and scan the ones I want to have copies of. Sort of did this when my Granddad passed away, but didn't do a thorough job.

20. Create a photo wall of family pics in the front entryway. I'm still collecting ideas for this on Pinterest.

21. Take a cooking class. Still checking community colleges and adult ed.

22. Finish an entire game of Monopoly. Should've done it over Christmas when my stepson was here.

23. Get up early on Black Friday and go shopping. DONE (ish)! I made the day after Christmas MY Black Friday. See here.

24. Go to a Bon Jovi concert. This WILL happen (if Bon Jovi cooperates with me.) He's coming to a casino in Connecticut, but I waited to late to figure out tickets.

25. Follow through with my cleaning schedule for an entire month. Cleaning is the bane of my existence. I'm *really* going to try to follow through for at least a week.

26. If #3 is not accomplished, at least go down one pant size. DONE!

27. Exercise enough so that I do not have to take pills for high cholesterol anymore. Had it checked last month. It was up a tad, but Dr. agreed to re-check in three months and if it's down or steady I can reduce my meds!!!

28. Go to a professional development event, i.e., ALA. Hmmm...Seattle or Anaheim? Probably not. However, in 2016, ALA will be back in Boston.

29. Turn in a school assignment a whole day before it’s due. DONE!

30. Try downhill skiing. Still thinking about it.

31. Go out for tapas. Still need to find a local Tapas restaurant.

32. Put money into savings each month. Working on.

33. Get the entire “Bones” series from Netflix and watch them all! Have watched the first two episodes of Season 1. Just not feeling it...

34. Join a book club. Help me out peeps! Anyone know of one near me???

35. Do SOMETHING with my wedding dress. Help me out again peeps! Anyone know of a talented seamstress near me??? I have an idea in mind.

36. Revisit crocheting. This might change to knitting. I've had an offer to teach me!

37. Try 5 new restaurants. DONE! #1: Agave Mexican Bistro. See review here. #2: Wang's Table: Local yocal Chinese restaurant that's actually pretty good. #3: FINS Fish House & amp; Raw Bar: A to-die-for Pear Pomegranate Martini and delectable Swordfish. #4: Birches Bar & Grill at Mohegan Sun. Had a lovely Pomegranate Martini there. #5: Margaritas: OK chain Mexican.

38. Try yoga. We have a yoga class at work that I'm still eyeing.

39. Pay off at least one credit card. DONE!

40. A wild card item—my choice. Still mulling over.

Friday, January 4, 2013

2012: A Year In Books


As part of my 40 Before 41, I set a goal of reading 50 books in one calendar year. I did this in 2011.

I wondered if when the pressure wasn't on, how many I'd read. Turns out that I came pretty close to 50 again in 2012.

Here are the books I read last year (those with an asterisk, I'd HIGHLY recommend, those with a pound sign, DON'T BOTHER!):

1. Keeping the House by Ellen Baker (#) (Review can be read here.)

2. I Gave My Heart to Know This by Ellen Baker

3. The Rope by Nevada Barr

4. Once Upon a Time, There Was You by Elizabeth Berg

5. Quiet by Susan Cain (if you can count skimming as reading) (NOTE: The fact that I skimmed this shouldn't necessarily be taken as a "black mark" on the book. It was about introverts. I'm an introvert [for the most part]. I thought it would be more personal stories, but it was more psychology/science, which isn't bad, just wasn't what I was looking for.)

6. Miracle at Speedy Motors by Alexander McCall Smith

7. Flight of Gemma Hardy by Margot Livesey (*) (GREAT story, GREAT book. My only tiny complaint is that it was a tad long, but that didn't take away from me loving the book.)




8. A Vintage Affair by Isabel Wolff

9. Behind the Beautiful Forevers by Katherine Boo (*) (The title is catchy, but don't ignore the fine print sub-title -- "Life, Death & Hope in a Mumbia Undercity." This non-fiction book is somewhat out of my usual realm of book choices, but it was extremely enlightening on life in the slums of India. Highly recommend.)





10. Biggie & the Devil Diet by Nancy Bell

11. Cat's Claw by Susan Wittig Albert

12. Another Piece of My Heart by Jane Green

13. Sun Storm by Asa Larsson

14. Teaberry Strangler by Laura Childs

15. All In by Adrian Gostick & Chester Elton

16. Girlchild by Tupelo Hassman

17. Body in the Boudoir by Katherine Hall Page

18. All Woman & Springtime by Brandon W. Jones

19. The Shoemaker's Wife by Adriana Trigiani (*) (Riveting Italian immigrant love story. Very rich in language and details. Great story.)




20. Let's Pretend This Never Happened (A Mostly True Memoir) by Jenny Lawson

21. Wild by Cheryl Strayed (*) (This is another non-fiction book that was slightly out of my normal realm. Woman with troubled life packs everything up and decides to hike the Pacific Coast Trail, with no "real" equipment or training. Great "coming of age" story.)




22. Calling Invisible Women by Jeanne Ray (#) (I'm not really sure what this was about. I remember finishing the book saying to myself, "Um, was that really published?" Middle-age women that literally become invisible and then band together.)

23. Tea Time for the Traditionally Built by Alexander McCall Smith

24. This Is How by Augusten Burroughs

25. Spring Fever by Mary Kay Andrews

26. Dying To Be Me by Anita Moorjani

27. Yes, Chef by Marcus Samuelsson

28. Beautiful Ruins by Jess Walter (about 2/3)

29. Scones & Bones by Laura Childs

30. Fleur de Leigh in Exile by Diane Leslie

31. Some Like It Hawk by Donna Andrews

32. Gold by Chris Cleave

33. Roots of the Olive Tree by Courtney Miller Santo

34. Before You Know Kindness by Chris Bohjalian

35. Double Comfort Safari Club by Alexander McCall Smith

36. Fudge Cupcake Murder by Joanne Fluke

37. Sandcastle Girls by Chris Bohjalian

38. Where'd You Go Bernadette by Maria Semple (*) (FREAKING HILARIOUS!!!! Very wry sense of humor...keeps you guessing. Read it. You'll laugh. Trust me.)




39. My Berlin Kitchen by Luisa Weiss

40. Hello Goodbye Hello by Craig Brown

41. Tigers in Red Weather by Liza Klaussmann

42. The Truth About Style by Stacy London (#) (As a huge fan of the TV show, "What Not to Wear" I thought I'd really love this book. I looked forward to getting to "know" the models chosen for it. Eh...a more appropriate title would've been, "How to Relate Normal People's Style Woes to Stacy London's Life." All.about.her. Bummer.)

43. The Middlesteins by Jami Attenberg

44. The Art Forger by B.A. Shapiro

45. Flight Behavior (through p. 290) by Barbara Kingsolver

46. Dearie by Bob Spitz (#) (If you want to know the nitty gritty details of Julia Child's grandfather's life, you've come to the right book. Wayyyyy tooo long. I just cared about her time on TV, so I skipped to that.)

47. Notorious Nineteen by Janet Evanovich

48. Little Bookstore of Big Stone Gap by Wendy Welch

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Welcome 2013!

John and I celebrated New Year's Eve in a fairly low-key fashion -- food, movies, sparkling wine & the ball dropping.

We decided that we would just do low maintenance appetizers for our meal. Here's the spread:




At 12 o'clock, we have John's Poinsettia. At about 2:30/3:00 in the middle, we have Parisian bread with butter. At about 4:00 in the middle, we have my Little Penguin Chardonnay. At 6:00, we have strawberries, watermelon, and pineapple. From 8:00-9:00, we have Colby-Jack cheese, crackers, and a Sun-Dried Tomato Feta Spread. At 10:00, we have the piece de resistance -- Hot Pepper Jelly Kielbasa Appetizer. I was shopping in Stonewall Kitchen recently and picked up some hot pepper jelly in the hopes that we'd put it out with cream cheese as an appetizer on Christmas. Totally forgot it. So, came across this recipe and it's SO easy and a tasty take on plain old kielbasa. Highly recommend!

We decided to watch the movie "Drive" based on the recommendation of my stepson.



I texted him after it was done and said, "Were you drinking when you watched this?" It was just plain WEIRD. Very little dialogue. Longgggggg bouts of silence. Odd, just odd. John and I just kind of looked at each other when it was over and were like, "Ok...."

We figured it could only get better from there and since it was still fairly early, we decided to watch another movie. A baseball movie. Clint Eastwood. Amy Adams. Has to be better, right?



I'm pretty sure that "Trouble with the Curve" was Movie Studio B's counter to "Moneyball" by Movie Studio A. I really like Amy Adams and I love baseball, but this movie just didn't have "it." It was definitely better than "Drive" but still not two thumbs up. I'd say one thumb up.

We had our traditional sparkling wine in the toasting flutes that we used at our wedding (awwww) and watched the ball drop.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!